Why do many people who come out of the lows become silent and reserved? It is precisely because they have struggled in the depths, surrounded by indifferent gazes, with no help in sight. They have deeply experienced the complexity and ruthlessness of human nature. Once they break free from their difficulties, they learn to face life with a more pragmatic and calm attitude, and their emotions are carefully wrapped up, no longer easily revealing their true selves. Just as the ancient saying goes, "If one cannot succeed outwardly, seek within oneself." They have learned to stop seeking external comfort and reliance, and instead firmly hold the key in their own hands. When are people most clear-headed? It must be after a natural disaster, after a scandal is exposed, after a major catastrophe, or after a serious illness. At these times, people are free from gains and losses, joy and sorrow, right and wrong—unperturbed by waves. So, you need to calm down, look inward, observe the world outwardly, and not seek others' love.