Push the Chinese content or key political attitude class Long, so that if you read Long, you can't help but complain, if there is a difference, please include Long
Long people don't figure out two things The first is that everyone is equal and treats people equally This is a misunderstanding of the meaning of the word, and the vast majority of the understanding is fairness, in fact, absolute fairness is difficult to exist stably for a long time Everyone is equal and treats others equally, which is "private peace": take the recent teacher's homework incident as an example, if you are the exporter, think about it before exporting, what is your heart like when you encounter such an output at the other party's age? I believe that no one will like it. Since the other person won't like it, you should think about another way, what way, and ask yourself what way you can accept it. This is to balance one's own selfishness, and then take follow-up actions based on this information, which is called "private peace" The Analects of the Analects, "Establish others if you want to do to others, and do not do to others what you do not want" refers to the behavior pattern of "private peace", and at the same time, it is also the "way of inner seeking" that Buddhism often says Following the above example, some people will say that what if you answer the other party Long times in a peaceful way or won't do it? Then you have to examine your own problems, it must be that the teaching process exceeds the other party's ability to accept, if you will not "push the old and innovate" teaching methods, you will eventually return to the ranks of the abuser The "innovation" here reflects the second thing: hard-working and hard-working As the saying goes, hardship and hard work are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but as long as everyone wants to do this traditional virtue, most people are forced to bear hardships and stand hard work Again, in the above example, the abuser teacher excuses himself for violence on the grounds of educating the child to improve his endurance, which probably means that the child should not be spoiled if he suffers a little This kind of scolding will not be good, but the child will definitely copy this way to educate the next generation when he grows up, which actually means that your child has not grown up, and your family has not been excellent because of the generation, which is a great loss As I said before, suffering is not suffering from insults and violence, but loneliness. There are Long manifestations of loneliness, parents and friends and pets are not around or there are obvious opposites, challenging themselves, stepping into the unknown, especially the latter two, will appear more frequently than the former, such as self-discipline is a typical self-challenge Teachers are also students, and they also need to keep learning knowledge and educate people by example. But Long teachers, including the one in the case, are typical only willing to stay in their own knowledge comfort zone, children can't learn, must be the reason why children are stupid and never find their own teaching methods In other words, it is unwilling to endure hardship, and it is conceivable that even if this matter is not disclosed by the video, it will cause other problems in the future Summarize: Treating people equally, not fairness but "private equality" Endure hardship, only endure the hardships of loneliness, including self-discipline, learning new knowledge, and stepping into new fields Any virtues such as courage, patience, and responsibility are obtained through the suffering of loneliness, and even if they are scolded and beaten, it is useless for a lifetime
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Push the Chinese content or key political attitude class Long, so that if you read Long, you can't help but complain, if there is a difference, please include Long
Long people don't figure out two things
The first is that everyone is equal and treats people equally
This is a misunderstanding of the meaning of the word, and the vast majority of the understanding is fairness, in fact, absolute fairness is difficult to exist stably for a long time
Everyone is equal and treats others equally, which is "private peace": take the recent teacher's homework incident as an example, if you are the exporter, think about it before exporting, what is your heart like when you encounter such an output at the other party's age? I believe that no one will like it. Since the other person won't like it, you should think about another way, what way, and ask yourself what way you can accept it. This is to balance one's own selfishness, and then take follow-up actions based on this information, which is called "private peace"
The Analects of the Analects, "Establish others if you want to do to others, and do not do to others what you do not want" refers to the behavior pattern of "private peace", and at the same time, it is also the "way of inner seeking" that Buddhism often says
Following the above example, some people will say that what if you answer the other party Long times in a peaceful way or won't do it? Then you have to examine your own problems, it must be that the teaching process exceeds the other party's ability to accept, if you will not "push the old and innovate" teaching methods, you will eventually return to the ranks of the abuser
The "innovation" here reflects the second thing: hard-working and hard-working
As the saying goes, hardship and hard work are the traditional virtues of the Chinese nation, but as long as everyone wants to do this traditional virtue, most people are forced to bear hardships and stand hard work
Again, in the above example, the abuser teacher excuses himself for violence on the grounds of educating the child to improve his endurance, which probably means that the child should not be spoiled if he suffers a little
This kind of scolding will not be good, but the child will definitely copy this way to educate the next generation when he grows up, which actually means that your child has not grown up, and your family has not been excellent because of the generation, which is a great loss
As I said before, suffering is not suffering from insults and violence, but loneliness. There are Long manifestations of loneliness, parents and friends and pets are not around or there are obvious opposites, challenging themselves, stepping into the unknown, especially the latter two, will appear more frequently than the former, such as self-discipline is a typical self-challenge
Teachers are also students, and they also need to keep learning knowledge and educate people by example. But Long teachers, including the one in the case, are typical only willing to stay in their own knowledge comfort zone, children can't learn, must be the reason why children are stupid and never find their own teaching methods
In other words, it is unwilling to endure hardship, and it is conceivable that even if this matter is not disclosed by the video, it will cause other problems in the future
Summarize:
Treating people equally, not fairness but "private equality"
Endure hardship, only endure the hardships of loneliness, including self-discipline, learning new knowledge, and stepping into new fields
Any virtues such as courage, patience, and responsibility are obtained through the suffering of loneliness, and even if they are scolded and beaten, it is useless for a lifetime