I've always said I don't look for banks, nurses, or teachers, and I never knew why.

Today, a buddy shared his blind date experience, and I think I suddenly understand.
He said: He met a female teacher, from a provincial government kindergarten, not exactly ugly, about four or five points, but he didn't like her.
During dinner, she boasted to him, saying a deputy director personally offered her a toast and that she was taking care of her grandson.
Her lowering her stance wasn't because you have great abilities, but because she's afraid of offending you later, and you might cause trouble for her grandson.
As a teacher, if you bring up this story and boast about it, it doesn't prove you're impressive; instead, it makes people think your character has issues.
He has gone on blind dates with seven or eight teachers, and none of them worked out.
Most of them are like this: moving from school to school, without experiencing the hardships of society,
high and mighty, yet holding many unrealistic fantasies about life, and they are particularly assertive.